So, I had better things to do. But you know how it is when these ideas ponder your brain and bugs you down to a point where you have to just write it down somewhere 😀 Yeah exactly that!!
We have a lot of anomalies, but let me break down just these two today. And caution, before going ahead. Yeah, when we over analyze someone we interpret everything just in one direction based on what you think someone is going through. So, I might be going through a lot of shit if you are looking at me that way or if you really know me well you might think it is all purely a bliss. So, just don't assume too much based on what I am about to write. If you can't stop the urge of over analyzing, just think it as a sudden revelation made me do all these things😀 . Yeah that was too much but yes you know what I meant.
Anomaly No #1
All girls are waiting for their prince charming to arrive in a chariot and to sweep them off their feet
A bit overwhelming isn't it? But you know we do have a lot of those melodramatic fancy tales to blame for sure. 😀 Straight to the point, real life ain't a fable. Think about it rationally and gracefully, those all are just fairy tales and you know it better. And to my beautiful girls out there, yeah all of us are so pretty and elegant already why not let us re-evaluate the facts one more time. So why do you blame men for not being the way you want them to be when clearly life is not a fairy tale? Why do we set this unrealistic expectation and throw it straight at their face and torment men? When something tries to break down our heart we know very well how to guard it and we will do it better. Not even a single man could ever decode how we do that yet and that is the reason why men have trouble trusting women.
To all my good men out there and I know all of you are good, but to whom you are good depends on what prevails in your mind. What I am about to say is not to offend anyone. So let me put it this way, you have a very fragile heart and your way of guarding it is by never allowing those emotions flow to the heart ever. Because if you let it flow to your heart and in case it breaks you know there is no going back from that heart break. You should understand that women have expectation, yes it is irrational, but women out there are all just fragile beings altogether, the only thing that is strong enough within them is their heart. So we can't always blame them for having a strong heart if that is the only thing strong enough in them right ? You have a very hardwired brain, not just that you actually do have two brains, one logical and the other illogical one. So, when you look for goodness in a women, your logic prevails, but when you look for naughtiness, your illogic prevails, still nothing ain't reached your heart if you don't want it to reach there. Isn't it what is happening ? These women are having a very big problem of taking every emotion right into their heart and that might be a very big problem for you. But the truth is unlike you that is the only place they process emotions because they don't even know about any other places to do that.
Anomaly No #2
A woman is created from the man's rib
Biblical one ain't it ? But it is very illogical. The only concept I have in my mind is based on human anatomy, and what is evident and what is right in front of us now. So, my approach to this quote is same as the way a copywriter would have written out something just to express how things should be taken into consideration rather than how they physically are. Yeah all our handsome men, who are already charming and very astute with their emotions, isn't it time for a quick rain check ? So, those fragile beings you blame just because they have a strong heart, can't you look into yourself and see how capable and strong you already are to protect someone else? So how is this quote giving anyone privilege to treat a women as their extension and to play with their emotions ? You know there isn't a single woman who is not disappointed with this mindset of men, it makes things so difficult to trust any men out there.
To all my sparkling women out there, well don't get offended because that ain't my intention. We might be lacking in emotional quotient a bit and physically very fragile but we do have a very strong heart and it never breaks. And regardless of all these, we are the only evergreen weakness men had for centuries and it will continue the same for more centuries to come. Don't take it the wrong way because it simply is how we all have been created. And in one way or the other even we do have that dreadful disease which we very tenaciously term as attraction right. So yes, sometimes the way we carry our heart on our sleeves, at times we should also consider a call named justice. Because, the emotions we pour out to everyone around us, coupled with our own irrational high standards are sometimes just unacceptable you know. So, if we are about showing off our heart high up in the air, just realize that it is not our call on how it should be interpreted because our fellow beings just don't get what is this heavy downpour of emotions about most of the time. And the way we think it is their responsibility to protect each and every needs of us really ? Oh please don't get me started on that. If we can handle our heart from breaking down we can also handle our emotions well. So, don't nag them for not doing it right every time things goes wrong because it is basically our problem. Someday soon enough we would actually have to think of ways on how to get our emotional outburst under our grip so that we can stop complaining about how much of injustice we have been exposed to.
So to all men and women, the way I look at it actually anomalies comes up when we set distinction and every time when you take a quote for what it is not you are just sinking the essence of it entirely. And a very good way to deal with this is by inculcating a quality called Understanding within ourselves, and it all begins when we stop generalizing right ? So, yeah regardless of what gender we are we get hurt sometimes, but should we make it a reason to categorize everyone of the opposite gender into same group is up to us right ? So if we stop categorizing people for what they are not can't we also stop being the reason to get hurt and also hurt others irrespective of our gender ? Didn't I make it clear ? So yes, you get hurt by a representative of one gender should not be considered a reason to hurt every other person of that gender. Now its clear for sure. 😀
Even this universe is all about synchrony and balance, men and women even though they have a lot of differences are actually the natural balance point of everything mankind could build so far. So why can't we break all these anomalies for the right reasons ?
We have a lot of anomalies, but let me break down just these two today. And caution, before going ahead. Yeah, when we over analyze someone we interpret everything just in one direction based on what you think someone is going through. So, I might be going through a lot of shit if you are looking at me that way or if you really know me well you might think it is all purely a bliss. So, just don't assume too much based on what I am about to write. If you can't stop the urge of over analyzing, just think it as a sudden revelation made me do all these things😀 . Yeah that was too much but yes you know what I meant.
Anomaly No #1
All girls are waiting for their prince charming to arrive in a chariot and to sweep them off their feet
A bit overwhelming isn't it? But you know we do have a lot of those melodramatic fancy tales to blame for sure. 😀 Straight to the point, real life ain't a fable. Think about it rationally and gracefully, those all are just fairy tales and you know it better. And to my beautiful girls out there, yeah all of us are so pretty and elegant already why not let us re-evaluate the facts one more time. So why do you blame men for not being the way you want them to be when clearly life is not a fairy tale? Why do we set this unrealistic expectation and throw it straight at their face and torment men? When something tries to break down our heart we know very well how to guard it and we will do it better. Not even a single man could ever decode how we do that yet and that is the reason why men have trouble trusting women.
To all my good men out there and I know all of you are good, but to whom you are good depends on what prevails in your mind. What I am about to say is not to offend anyone. So let me put it this way, you have a very fragile heart and your way of guarding it is by never allowing those emotions flow to the heart ever. Because if you let it flow to your heart and in case it breaks you know there is no going back from that heart break. You should understand that women have expectation, yes it is irrational, but women out there are all just fragile beings altogether, the only thing that is strong enough within them is their heart. So we can't always blame them for having a strong heart if that is the only thing strong enough in them right ? You have a very hardwired brain, not just that you actually do have two brains, one logical and the other illogical one. So, when you look for goodness in a women, your logic prevails, but when you look for naughtiness, your illogic prevails, still nothing ain't reached your heart if you don't want it to reach there. Isn't it what is happening ? These women are having a very big problem of taking every emotion right into their heart and that might be a very big problem for you. But the truth is unlike you that is the only place they process emotions because they don't even know about any other places to do that.
Anomaly No #2
A woman is created from the man's rib
Biblical one ain't it ? But it is very illogical. The only concept I have in my mind is based on human anatomy, and what is evident and what is right in front of us now. So, my approach to this quote is same as the way a copywriter would have written out something just to express how things should be taken into consideration rather than how they physically are. Yeah all our handsome men, who are already charming and very astute with their emotions, isn't it time for a quick rain check ? So, those fragile beings you blame just because they have a strong heart, can't you look into yourself and see how capable and strong you already are to protect someone else? So how is this quote giving anyone privilege to treat a women as their extension and to play with their emotions ? You know there isn't a single woman who is not disappointed with this mindset of men, it makes things so difficult to trust any men out there.
To all my sparkling women out there, well don't get offended because that ain't my intention. We might be lacking in emotional quotient a bit and physically very fragile but we do have a very strong heart and it never breaks. And regardless of all these, we are the only evergreen weakness men had for centuries and it will continue the same for more centuries to come. Don't take it the wrong way because it simply is how we all have been created. And in one way or the other even we do have that dreadful disease which we very tenaciously term as attraction right. So yes, sometimes the way we carry our heart on our sleeves, at times we should also consider a call named justice. Because, the emotions we pour out to everyone around us, coupled with our own irrational high standards are sometimes just unacceptable you know. So, if we are about showing off our heart high up in the air, just realize that it is not our call on how it should be interpreted because our fellow beings just don't get what is this heavy downpour of emotions about most of the time. And the way we think it is their responsibility to protect each and every needs of us really ? Oh please don't get me started on that. If we can handle our heart from breaking down we can also handle our emotions well. So, don't nag them for not doing it right every time things goes wrong because it is basically our problem. Someday soon enough we would actually have to think of ways on how to get our emotional outburst under our grip so that we can stop complaining about how much of injustice we have been exposed to.
So to all men and women, the way I look at it actually anomalies comes up when we set distinction and every time when you take a quote for what it is not you are just sinking the essence of it entirely. And a very good way to deal with this is by inculcating a quality called Understanding within ourselves, and it all begins when we stop generalizing right ? So, yeah regardless of what gender we are we get hurt sometimes, but should we make it a reason to categorize everyone of the opposite gender into same group is up to us right ? So if we stop categorizing people for what they are not can't we also stop being the reason to get hurt and also hurt others irrespective of our gender ? Didn't I make it clear ? So yes, you get hurt by a representative of one gender should not be considered a reason to hurt every other person of that gender. Now its clear for sure. 😀
Even this universe is all about synchrony and balance, men and women even though they have a lot of differences are actually the natural balance point of everything mankind could build so far. So why can't we break all these anomalies for the right reasons ?
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